By Zethu Zwane
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Gifts Should change Every Month
This list is exactly the reason why I’m a firm believer in knowing someone’s Love language. I’m obsessed with watching a healthier show that counsels families, and a repeated mistake both women and men is doing relationships according redundant standards. For instance something that didn’t surprise me is many relationships have difficulty because the men become resentful toward the woman. I wasn’t surprised due to the many guy friends who also complained about this. So I could get where the boyfriends or husbands are coming from.
Reason being almost all the women are taking advise that men have NEVER heard of. This ends up hurting his emotions and pride. Men also want women to notice when he’s bidding for emotional connection. Sadly most TV shows and social media posts have this idea the world revolves round roses and Diamond rings for her.
Not today; take a good look at these gift ideas to get your creative juices going. Knowing the men in your life’s love languages will ease these misunderstandings. Plus if you want to me to dona follow up post on gift ideas based on their love language, please leave a comment below. I’ll do it just for you, so you develop richer and deeper relationships with your loved ones. .
Buy Gifts Throughout The Year
What I like to do throughout the year is observe what’s been happening in their lives. However please ask him what’s he into these days. Pick comforting gifts for when they’re going through a joyful season, a season needing patience or a season of strengthening and brevity. Do you need to repair your relationship, ask these questions. I try get a gift that accommodates rose needs. I also like to make these gifts more long lasting with the exception when I bought tickets to the Oklahoma City Thunders game. That was just to do something together.
These gift ideas are not specific to boyfriends only, your brother and father would love! While I was in college, I got my brother my fave scented candle. Actually I wanted him to choose which fragrance he would love the most for his room, so I got another one. Turns out my favorite scent reminds him of one of his favorite holidays, which was a bonus. I believe in planning to avoid frustration from not preparing financially.
My advise is if you have a big family, and very valuable friends, start collecting gifts in June. This gives you room to splurge without feeling the pinch in your pockets. I also love this startegy because in December I only get item like candy. I add candy to their gift packages. Alternatively, you can have a whole storage room or sectioned corner in your house for general gifts. Then buy special gifts later. You see planning makes you a phenomenal Hostess/host without sweating! In that case, if you like the sound of a stress free holiday planning then consider buying any of these items below for the men in your life.
I’ve also left out sight, so if the men in your life like sports consider buying them season tickets or 1 to 4 games to their favorite sports team. I wasn’t a big fan when I did it, but I loved the atmosphere, the Tailgating and just watching him have the time of his life. Sometimes an experience for a single day stays with you for a lifetime, so get it!
For His Touch
My blog wouldn’t be wellness focused if I didn’t add something health related. The Vivasport longsleeve tops is for das outside. Seeing these makes me want to get the womans version because in the winters I used to run from Norman Oklahoma Couch Restaurant to 12th Street in a similar top. They are super warm, and I always challenged myself to run without a jacket. Okay I know a bit extreme, so maybe you’ll love this for hiking days.
Or when you want to day of paint balling. Then again I’ve included slippers too, just a subtle reminder to tell him to relax and find peace as much as he can. I belive the best thing you can do for those yoy love is . There’s nothing more valuable than emotional rest. So encourage him to slip into these shoes and watch his favorite shows. If you want this for your dad, give it to him and maybe consider doing his favorite breakfast, so his body knows it’s a day of Pampering for him.
Indulge Him with a Longlasting Splurge
This alternative is perfect for men who have exquisite taste, so don’t hold back on splurging on him. Mix things up by giving him gifts that include a splurge, a steal and a sale. However if the men in your life love expensive things, consider investment gifts like watches that generally last years. You can also start him on a collectors items if he really enjoys a good watch.
Uplift His Surroundings with New Fragrances
Shower Him in a Perfumed Experience
The Unconventional Tasty Gift Set
Plug into His Heart
With his favorite playist. That’s if he loves music. Gifts for listening are great for both your guy friends, brother or boyfriend. For your boyfriend, or husband create a private playlist on SoundCloud or YouTube, so you can play it when you are apart. These are subtle connections that deepen your relationship.
I threw in the Karaoke for a group game night. Don’t look at earbuds as just antisocial; they can be the perfect pair for a productive day. That means if he enjoys studying or researching while plugged into his preferred playlist, he’ll enjoy these earbuds.
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